Happiness is an inside job.  There is no outside force that can make an impact on your happiness like the true inner YOU can.  Boyfriends, shopping, ice cream, margaritas, diamond rings or salon trips only bring about temporary satisfaction, never lasting fulfillment.   These people, places and things can only serve as instant gratification tools.  And once these people, places, and things are lost your happiness will disappear too.

Today, become a vessel of receiving what’s most important…

“Happiness, that grand mistress of the ceremonies in the dance of life, impels us through all its mazes and meandering, but leads none of us by the same route.” — Charles Caleb Colton

Ok, so, we finally got the new promotion at work. We finally got the best new dance title. We married the perfect knight in shining armor. We made 4 new friends. We finally have that perfect figure we’ve always dreamed of…….

We just bought…

When we run to things, people and places to make us happy, we ultimately become self-destructive.  Because, once we give up those things, people and places- we are ultimately unhappy. True happiness is from within, it is a force that is never outside of us. We have to really get in touch with ourselves to find it.

Daily, I have a practice of asking myself (what would it take today for me to be happy?) Asking myself…

One of the essential keys to happiness is growth. How do we grow?

We grow by constantly improving and extending ourselves, continuously being of service to others, doing small acts of kindness at all times, giving charity, taking risks, doing the unexpected, giving fully of ourselves …

The quickest way to grow is to always be in appreciation of life. Being grateful, and having appreciation for everything and every person and every situation is fundamental to personal…

“Belief in oneself is required for healing. Faith is vital for managing the challenges of our everyday existence. Low self-esteem reflects one’s lack of faith in oneself as well as in the powers of the unseen world.” –Dr. Caroline Myss

At present, we define healed as the opposite of needy. Therefore, to be healed means to be fully self-contained, always positive, always happy, always sure of oneself, and never needing anyone.

No wonder few ever consider themselves…

Yesterday, I asked why do we hate people that are happy.  It is because we feel that we are missing out on something.

We are all meant to be happy, and we will find that happiness.  But we first have to tap into our own source of happiness and well being.  The person you see that is always so full of joy has already found their true source and is able…

When people are happy and are actually expressing their happiness for any accomplishment they’ve made, why do we hate them? When people are certain about themselves and openly express that certainty, why do we hate them?

When we have feelings of disdain, jealousy and envy towards another person, we are experiencing feelings of hatred, and possibly for no reason.

Today is a good day to just replace hatred for no reason with love for no reason. Love…