I’ve talked a lot lately about desires. In all of my articles I strongly ask, “What Do You Want?”, and encourage you to name your desires, write them down, talk about them with your friends, become excited about them.

Why do I talk so much about desires? Why is having desires so important? What exactly is a desire?

[A desire is a longing or craving, as for something that brings satisfaction or enjoyment.] In order to receive,…

“We are like sculptors, constantly carving out of others the image we long for, need, love or desire, often against reality, against their benefit, and always, in the end, a disappointment, because it does not fit them.” – Anais Nin

It’s very easy to become stuck in trying to figure out what we really truly desire in life. One place to start is by figuring out what it is that we really truly do NOT desire.

It’s equivalent…

“If you greatly desire something, have the guts to stake everything on obtaining it.” –Brendan Francis

When someone asks us what we want, we can immediately name small things. Such as the newest in-season Chanel handbag, or the latest crocodile Gucci boots, or the newest most fabulously shimmerous^TM Yves St. Laurent lipstick.

One minute we want our neighbor’s shiny new car, and the next we want our best friend’s shiny new bracelet. One minute we want a close, caring…