INNER PRINCESS Magazine » blame

Ouch! Sounds Harsh

penna — Sun, 24 May 2009 07:00:07 +0000

“Truth is not beautiful, neither is ugly. Why should it be either? Truth is Truth.” — Owen C. Middleton

The problem most of us have is laying aside our foolish pride and stuffed egos to hear and accept the truth about ourselves. We can be cowards because we don’t like when someone corrects us, or reminds us of our faults. We are the ultimate victims when it comes to others’ judgments, critiquing and criticisms. When someone dare…

You Reap What You Sow

penna — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 07:00:12 +0000

Let me let you in on a little secret. If you are holding onto grudges and constantly trying to take revenge on others, then you will continue to suffer. You CANNOT live an “eye for an eye” life! You will continue to stay sick, unhappy, alone and miserable. You will continue to be unhappy with every person you meet, every situation you have, and stay angry at the world for you not being happy.

You cannot buy…

Where Is Your Loyalty?

penna — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 07:00:41 +0000

We are not loyal people. Are we? We will enter a relationship just to see what we can get out of it. It never occurs to us that we should actually give.

Where is your loyalty?

We are takers. So, when we don’t get what we want from that other person, we blame them and shut them out of our lives. We are such fools to believe that it is their fault for not letting…

Drenched Umbrella

penna — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 07:00:47 +0000

“Just as you leave your drenched umbrella at the door when you step in from the pouring rain, leave your drenched ego at the door when you step in from a world of nonsense and blame.” — Penna

It’s raining today. But, I don’t need my umbrella because I’m staying in. Not because I’m avoiding the rain, but because I need to do some checking up on my ego. I’m using this opportunity to figure out where…

Clear Consciousness

penna — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 07:00:56 +0000

We are never victims, and yet we’ve made victim consciousness our comfort zone. That is because, if we are a victim then we never have to take responsibility for our own lives. We can just blame someone else for why things aren’t happening right in our lives but ourselves. It’s way more comfortable that way.

When we blame others for our circumstances we are freely handing complete control of our lives to that other person. That person…

Leave Blame at The Door

MSM — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 02:44:53 +0000

Blaming someone else for the situations that happen in your life is shirking all responsibility and accountability for yourself. When you blame someone else you completely hand over the control of your life to that other person. That means the other person has the ability and your permission to make decisions in your life for you.

You don’t want that, do you?

When you walk into a situation full of blame you’re walking into a promise of…