“People with clenched fists can not shake hands.”–Indira Gandhi

Who have you had a few unpleasant words with lately? Who is the person that you absolutely cannot stand and just want to bash? Who is it that you see coming and try to avoid at all costs? Who is it that is fully annoying you?

Fighting is only an illusion. See that person over there? You are not really fighting with her. In reality, there is really…

“Remove those ‘I want you to like me’ stickers from your forehead and, instead, place them where they truly will do the most good — on your mirror!” –SJ

Inner Princess is about helping you to build your self-esteem. In that, it is like your very own personal mirror that stares you right in the face, and helps you to see clearly your own reflection.

The sticker on your mirror named ‘Inner Princess’ is the plea, “I…

“Belief in oneself is required for healing. Faith is vital for managing the challenges of our everyday existence. Low self-esteem reflects one’s lack of faith in oneself as well as in the powers of the unseen world.” –Dr. Caroline Myss

At present, we define healed as the opposite of needy. Therefore, to be healed means to be fully self-contained, always positive, always happy, always sure of oneself, and never needing anyone.

No wonder few ever consider themselves…

A lot of things that trip us up is the action that we take upon the thought that there is competition among us.

What I mean by this is that we sometimes make hasty decisions out of fear that someone else will get to the finish line first– and we want to be that first person to complete and achieve that certain something.

When we feel that someone else is competing against us, it is easy to…

“You determine the effects that you will have upon others, and the nature of the experiences of your life.”
–Gary Zukav

This morning- for about an hour- I was in a deep conversation with a friend of mine. She was explaining to me how she is dealing with a certain issue that’s currently in her life.

While she was describing to me all of the details of this, I found myself relating to her. I realized…

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
–Lao-Tzu (Chinese Philosopher, 604 BC- 531 BC)

Any time you are starting something new – whether it’s a new relationship, a new job, a new family or a new hobby – it is always confusing where to begin.

Your head is spinning in a million directions; your mind is racing at top speed; you are completely out of control- and frantic, not knowing what to do…

Wouldn’t it just be nice to wake up today and shout out the window, “Hello world! Today I’m free!”

Wouldn’t that feel empowering?

Well, today is that day.

Today is your chance to show the self-confident, self-sufficient, self-reliant, self-contained and unconstrained you!

Today, you are now free from the influence and control of others.

Today, you are now free to stand on your own.

But why is today Miss Independent Day?

Well, why not today? Why wait?…

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Have you ever met someone and wanted to immediately befriend them? Especially on days when you are not feeling so good about life and don’t really have anyone to confide in?

But it’s hard to just step in and say to the other person, “Hey! I know we just met, but we should be friends.”

The reason it is hard to make friends is because we are so untrusting. We always want to believe that people have…