Never waste a crisis.  Crisis situations come along to show us who our true friends really are.  When things are “smooth-sailing”, it’s so easy for others to call themselves your “friend” -because it’s convenient for them, and don’t cost them anything.  But, when things are “rocky”, you will notice that they are all of a sudden out the door.  And, those people that you never really took seriously are the ones who actually stick by you, and…

What exactly is power?

You have absolutely no idea what power is.   Most people scream for “power” and “money”, and they actually believe that money is power. You are so far from the truth.   Money is NOT power, nor arrogance.   As I said, you have absolutely no idea what power really is.

I am friends with many people that have billions of dollars that think that their money brings them power. When they think…

Funny. People who email me always ask me the same questions. They assume that because I write articles everyday about deep issues, such as self-esteem, love, sharing, loneliness, depression, happiness, sadness, and every other issue, that I must be out of shape, broke, lonely …. etc.

Actually, just the opposite. I am a model, young, gorgeous, a size 00- and then some. I’m writing about these real issues because:

1. They are true, and these issues really…

We scratch only the surface of our actual capabilities, talents, abilities, gifts and attributes. We never fully understand just how in-depth we can become.

Listen to this, I recently read in an article lately that there was a survey that was done, asking people what they would rather talk about on a date. The choices were:

A. Occupation,
B. Pop-Culture,
C. Literature

I’m sure you already know the most popular choice. Yes, choice B!

I…

“When you care about yourself, you automatically care about others. When you love yourself, you automatically love the world. Selfishness, then, would have absolutely no place in your heart.” — Penna

My best friend tells me that he thinks that the reason, or people’s problem with being selfish is a compensation to feel more important. “If you liked yourself more, you would not care what others thought of you. Right?”

Is that the problem with 99.9% of…

Why do people find it so hard to be better people? Like I previously wrote, I am finding out things about people that’s truly jaw-dropping. Of all the years I’ve been living on Earth, I have always freely given of myself, my time, my love, my help, my loyalty. It is truly hurtful that people are never willing to reciprocate. Why is this? People are just not strong, honest, sincere and loyal people! Where is your loyalty?…

How often do we lose ourselves in the thoughts and opinions of others? We have so much to offer to the world, and to ourselves, but we forget that. We become so consumed by judgments, criticism, cruelty, hatred, negativity, low self-esteem and full of disdain for life.

When will we ever try to be there for someone else? I notice that the only time someone will try to help you is when they want something from you.…