We are never victims, and yet we’ve made victim consciousness our comfort zone.  That is because, if we are a victim then we never have to take responsibility for our own lives.  We can just blame someone else for why things aren’t happening right in our lives but ourselves.  It’s way more comfortable that way.

When we blame others for our circumstances we are freely handing complete control of our lives to that other person.  That person…

How important exactly are your thoughts?

Well, put it like this…. you could have every disease known to man in you today, and if you chose different thoughts, feelings and behaviors tomorrow, they would all leave your body. Literally! The key is to not give any unwanted thing much attention. When it doesn’t feel good, turn your attention someplace else. Turn your attention to what does feel good in your life.

Thoughts really do matter! As soon…

I just moved into my new home over the weekend.  And, the most tiring of the whole move was getting rid of all my unnecessary junk.  Who would’ve thought that dumping my garbage would be so much work?  Why was cleaning out my closet the most draining experience?  I am overwhelmed with how much lighter and happier I feel.  I’m even more amazed at how much junk I had to throw away.  I feel like I’m living…

“The best way to experience true nurturing is to give true nurturing.” –Dr. Caroline Myss

It is in giving that we receive. A lot of us go into relationships looking for the other half to provide us with all of the comfort that we seek. Not fully realizing that sharing works both ways.

Sometimes it becomes just a “me-only” relationship. We love to be consoled and supported every time we are feeling down, but when the nurturing…

We think that our slip ups and fall downs are mistakes. But, there are no mistakes in life. When you step on a banana peel and fall to the pavement, you may not have learned your lesson until you happen to be passing another banana peel later down the road.

And if you see the banana peel again you will know to tread carefully. The banana peel doesn’t care if you slip or not. The fall is…

You can walk into a room of 100 people, and will walk out with each person having 100 different opinions of you. This is why you cannot be affected by what others think of you. No matter who you are, where you go, who you know or what you do in life- there will always be judgments. People will always find things that they do not like about you.

Especially, because they don’t know you. You can…

It’s the New Year, Baby! New beginnings, new hopes, new dreams. It’s a brand new year to start all over again. All that you wanted to do in the last year just opened doors for you to do in this new year. All that you wanted to become is more readily available to you. Brand new opportunities, brand new chances, brand new friends, and even a brand new you!

It’s the New Year, Baby!

Today, and for…