One of the characters in the movie (The Players Club) was saying that you have to “use what you got to get what you want.”

And, Lisa’s character says, “well, if that’s all you got, then it ain’t much.”

She’s merely talking about manipulation. She’s talking about using a special gift, a special talent, a special asset that has been given to you- and you go and manipulate someone.

She’s right, if that is all that you…

“We are like sculptors, constantly carving out of others the image we long for, need, love or desire, often against reality, against their benefit, and always, in the end, a disappointment, because it does not fit them.” – Anais Nin

It’s very easy to become stuck in trying to figure out what we really truly desire in life. One place to start is by figuring out what it is that we really truly do NOT desire.

It’s equivalent…